When that pain first hit me, I was completely oblivious. It was a strange, unknown sensation that I questioned but dismissed. I thought it would diminish, but it only grew.
I had to get it checked. “Appendicitis?”, questioned the doctor as she pounded my lower abdomen once. It wasn’t. But that blow definitely awakened an excruciating monster that I felt would be the end of me. It was worse than what I came with. It spread throughout my fragile body and I almost couldn’t tell where exactly was I hurting because it seemed to spread to every last living cell.
The nurse walked me to another room where I was asked to lay down for an ultrasound. The fear began forming a layer over all the pain that I felt. My hands began to sweat. My body began to stiffen. As the cold gel was massaged over my abdomen with the transducer, I could feel my heart thumping even louder in my chest. I just hoped that it wouldn’t be what I thought it was.
“That cyst is so large that I can’t see your ovary”, she told me. Automatically, the waterworks began and my emotions weren’t going anywhere. One after the other, the tears rolled down my cheeks. I was terrified. The last time I heard of this, someone’s insides had to be scooped out. A hollow womb that would never again go through the rewarding excruciation of bearing a child. But I was only 15, I couldn’t have that taken away from me so soon. I didn’t want to move.
She told me it wasn’t a big deal. It would’ve been worse if it was discovered on my liver, pancreas, or kidneys. But I was ready to give away any organ at that moment for the sake of not experiencing the fear of infertility. I sobbed all the way home. I couldn’t contain myself, I felt my whole inner world deteriorating. It was burning me whole.
I spent the next few weeks in and out of the hospital. Needles one after the other penetrating my pale skin. I couldn’t wear what I wanted because it hurt. I couldn’t eat what I wanted because it could make it worse. I couldn’t leave the house because walking too much would awaken the shooting pain. I was intertwined within a routine that was supposed to make it go away, but which killed all the other parts of me slowly.
I wanted to be a mother, I still want to be a mother. And because of that, I had to fight that battle no matter what it took. And I won. It’s been almost two years now, but every minute hint of a similar pain still sends me into a short stupor. Is it happening yet again?